How Do I Honor Unbelieving Parents?
1) Direct Answer
Honor unbelieving parents by showing respect, care, and obedience in all that is right, while refusing—gently but firmly—to follow them into sin or unbelief. Keep a sweet spirit, meet their needs, pray for them, and let your life testify of Christ without compromise.
2) Scriptural Explanation
- Honor and obedience: “Honor thy father and thy mother” (Exodus 20:12). “Children, obey your parents in the Lord” (Ephesians 6:1-3; Colossians 3:20). Notice that obedience is “in the Lord”—never against His Word.
- Jesus’ example: He “was subject” to Mary and Joseph (Luke 2:51), showing respect even as He fulfilled the Father’s will.
- Care and provision: God rebuked those who dodged caring for parents (Matthew 15:4-6). Children and grandchildren should “requite their parents” (1 Timothy 5:4), and failing to provide is condemned (1 Timothy 5:8).
- Peaceful witness: Win them “without the word” by a chaste life and respectful behavior (1 Peter 3:1-2; Romans 12:18).
- Boundaries for conscience: “We ought to obey God rather than men” (Acts 5:29). If they demand what God forbids, you refuse—respectfully. Christ must be first (Matthew 10:34-37; Luke 14:26).
- Holy separation without rebellion: “Come out from among them” (2 Corinthians 6:17). Do not join in sin (1 Peter 4:3-4; Ephesians 5:11), yet keep a right attitude.
- New household order if married: You still honor your parents, but you cleave to your spouse as your first earthly loyalty (Genesis 2:24).
3) Simple Clarifying Logic
- Honor is an attitude and an action: respect in words, help in needs, gratitude in heart. It does not require agreeing with error.
- “In the Lord” sets the limit. If there is no conflict with Scripture, obey and assist. If there is a conflict, choose Christ—but keep a meek, steady spirit.
- A consistent, clean life speaks louder than arguments. Your patience and kindness keep the door open for their salvation.
4) Practical Ways
- Speak kindly; avoid harsh debate (Proverbs 15:1).
- Serve them: calls, visits, errands, financial help if needed.
- Thank them for the good they did; don’t rehearse their failures.
- Pray for them by name; ask God to open their eyes (1 Timothy 2:1).
- Set clear, calm boundaries when asked to join sinful practices.
- If there is hostility, keep a peaceful distance while remaining respectful and willing to help in right things (Romans 12:18; Psalm 27:10).
A final word: Put Christ first, keep a right spirit, do right by your parents, and trust God to use your life as a witness.
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One of the meanest men in town
61-0429B §24
...m, "Jesu"---Jesu with dirty feet. Sounds sacrilegious, but that's the way He was. That's the way that they'd left Him. That's the way they let Him sit---with dirty feet. An honored guest, supposed to be, and they were so busy with their doings, till Jesus sat with dirty feet. I wonder if we're not so interested today in seeing that our group grows bigger than the other that we don't leave Him sit the same way. But Jesus, with dirty feet, unwelcome. There was a little woman in that city who made her living at a very...
He that is in you
63-1110E §23
How do you do. You talk about a friendly little thing. Look at this. She's just all smiles. Let us bow our heads. Dear God, as I hold this little treasure a little Sharon Rose you know in my heart Lord, what I'm thinking, so I don't have to express it. Blessed be the Lord God who gives these little jewels to our hearts. Bless this Goodman home. May the parents be honored which they are to have such a jewel in home. May it remain in their home Lord and if there is a tomorrow make it an honorable woman of tomorrow. A...