If Multiple Dna Tests Prove That Some or All of My Children from My Wife Are Not Mine, What Should I Do?

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Answered by True Bible Teachings AI on 6/28/2026

1) Direct answer
Stay under the Word. DNA can prove paternity, but it does not dissolve a marriage covenant. Call the sin what it is—adultery—seek truthful confession and repentance, work toward forgiveness and restoration. If she refuses to live faithfully and the home cannot be kept in peace, you may separate; but you are not free to remarry while she lives. Care for the children righteously.

2) Scriptural explanation
- Marriage is a lifelong bond until death: “What God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matthew 19:6; Mark 10:9). “The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth… the husband is bound” (Romans 7:2–3; 1 Corinthians 7:39).
- If a spouse departs, the command stands: “Let not the wife depart… and let not the husband put away his wife. But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled” (1 Corinthians 7:10–11).
- Adultery is sin and must be confessed and forsaken (Exodus 20:14; Hebrews 13:4; Proverbs 28:13; 1 John 1:9). Restoration must be attempted in a spirit of meekness (Galatians 6:1). Handle it scripturally—go privately, then with witnesses if needed (Matthew 18:15–17).
- Your duty to your household remains: “If any provide not for his own… he hath denied the faith” (1 Timothy 5:8). Fathers are to nurture the children in the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). The children are not to bear the penalty for the parents’ sin (Deuteronomy 24:16). They need love, provision, and godly order.
- About conversion timing: If your marriage was before conversion, remain in the calling wherein you were called (1 Corinthians 7:17–24). If after both were believers, the same commands apply—no putting asunder what God joined.
- Annulment applies only if there was never a valid marriage from the start (e.g., a living spouse already bound, an unlawful union). DNA results do not prove the marriage was unlawful from the beginning; they show later sin. Therefore, this is not grounds for annulment or remarriage.

3) Simple clarifying logic
- Now notice: DNA reveals who fathered the child; it does not rewrite your vows. The covenant stands until death. Adultery wounds trust, but the Bible calls for repentance, forgiveness, and either reconciliation or, if necessary for righteousness and safety, separation without remarriage.
- Some say adultery frees a believer to remarry. But the Scripture says, “What God joined, let not man put asunder,” and commands the separated to “remain unmarried, or be reconciled.” That settles it.

4) Short reinforcing statement
Take this in order: guard your spirit, verify the matter, confront in truth, call for repentance, forgive, rebuild if she will walk right; if she will not, separate as needed—yet remain bound to your vow, and do right by the children. God can heal what man cannot when we stay with the Word. Final biblical conclusion: The marriage remains binding; pursue repentance and reconciliation. If reconciliation fails, separation is permitted, but annulment and remarriage are not, and you must continue your godly responsibility toward the children.